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A word of advice

Chen Ding has noticed that many people do not realize they can use the services of a counselor even if they do not have serious mental health problems. Many people need help to deal with pressure from work, relationships and other issues. Chen gives some advice on how to stay positive.

- Everyone has problems which are different at different times in his/her life. This is nothing to feel ashamed of. The worst thing is to be too numb to be able to self-exam your own life.

- People always need a support system. This could be reliable family members, close friends, or a mental health support group.

- Apart from work, you have to find other interests, which will help you release pressure from time to time.

- Eat well, get proper sleep and get enough exercise. This seems simple enough to do. However, very few people are able to make this healthy lifestyle part of their daily routine. It is very easy to get depressed if you fail to accomplish all of them.

- The real meaning of loving yourself is to accept and know your body, past and personality. You have to respect your present in order to achieve a brighter future.

- You have to be responsible for your own happiness and not always expect others to make you happy.

- A person's confusion usually comes from what he/she will lose when making choices. This can make him/her afraid of making decisions. You have to be brave and mature enough to admit that you cannot do everything.

- You have to allow yourself to stay calm, be passive but also occasionally have a temper. It is horrible to avoid having any negative emotion.

- When you are ready, a cup of coffee is always here waiting for you. Psychological counseling belongs to a person who is brave enough to face an unknown self.

- Even if your opponent is very powerful, you have to focus on taking in charge of your own life. However close you are to some people, you have to face your life by yourself. That is the true meaning of life.

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