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Kindle real interest by going beyond skin-deep

By Maria Makapehko (China Daily)
Updated: 2010-06-09 08:06

Who said that men love women only with their eyes? They use them to fall in love but if you want men to continue to be interested in you, looking great is not the only way to kindle love and passion.

Men are cunning when they talk about their ideal but if deaf and dumb beauty was all they wanted, the industry for the production of rubber dolls would thrive.

In addition to the exterior, men very much appreciate a woman's ability to be a worthy partner. Originality and the ability to respond to a joke is important. Respond to a provocative question in such a way as to drive your opponent into a corner, calmly find a shocking statement - all of this excites the cerebral cortex and successfully alternated with non-verbal ways of seducing a man, leads to mental orgasm.

Girls should continue from day to day keeping their man guessing. I don't mean changing clothes and make-up tone all the time.

Looks are only important at first and then they become a secondary factor, because the man will want to track manners, habits and reactions.

Keep his interest fueled with a lively inquisitive mind, intelligence and flexibility.

External beauty is static. It is symmetrical and touchable. It is not inconceivable and changeable, unexpected and sudden.

Having come to know, within a few days, all the hidden corners of beauty, the researcher will not be interested in wandering about the same surroundings every day.

A beautiful woman can be truly attractive but when she is not afraid of her words or conduct, she will not alienate and loses her man. Fear blinds the mind. It loses flexibility and the ability to generate fresh ideas, thoughts and opinions, and therefore ignite the mind of her beloved.

Kindling real interest beyond the superficial isn't easy, but the results of solving this puzzle will please both partners, whoever they are.